rockingyourrole

For women who Rock their Role in work and life

Female Breadwinners – are you a caricature?

I came across this advert via twitter recently

NOW CASTING STRONG FEMALE BREADWINNERS FOR A NEW DOCUSERIES!

ARE YOU THE ONE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT “BRINGS HOME THE BACON?”

DO YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIENDS ‘WEAR THE PANTS’ IN YOUR MARRIAGES?

SEEKING TYPE-A WOMEN WHO HAVE FLIPPED THE TABLES ON THE OLD SCHOOL, NUCLEAR FAMILY.

DO YOU REPRESENT THE NEW-AGE OF SUPER-SUCCESSFUL WOMEN WHO DON’T NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF THEM? IN FACT, IT’S THE OTHER WAY AROUND. DO YOU CALL THE SHOTS, PAY THE BILLS AND RULE THE ROOST? IF SO, CASTING WOULD LOVE TO CONSIDER YOU.

SEARCHING NATIONWIDE FOR WOMEN WHO “TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS” IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE AND THE MEN WHO LOVE THEM.

TO SUBMIT, SHOOT AN EMAIL INCLUDING YOUR NAME, AGE, AND OCCUPATION. EXPLAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, HOUSEHOLD AND HOW IT WORKS. WHAT MAKES YOU THE BREADWINNER? INCLUDE PHOTOS AND A NUMBER WHERE YOU CAN BE REACHED.

Location: anywhere

Compensation: $500+

Principals only. Recruiters, please don’t contact this job poster.

Please, no phone calls about this job!

Please do not contact job poster about other services, products or commercial interests.

The language of the advert perplexed me:

“Do you call the shots, pay the bills and rule the roost”

“Seeking type A women”

“Wear the pants”

All infer a taking of the masculine role by women. To me this is the caricature of the Female Breadwinner. Those that I meet are very much still women in every sense of the word. My fear is that this type of programme could be quite sensationalist, portraying alpha females as power hungry with their disempowered husbands, when the research I have undertaken suggests that women are so much more emotionally intelligent than that.

I encourage women to share their experience to support others, but am not sure that airing your experience on a docuseries is the way to go about it. Opening your life up to scrutiny when perhaps you have not had time to examine it yourself yet could potentially be extremely damaging. In turn, giving ammunition to those who don’t agree with your role as Female Breadwinner.

What do you think? Am I being too cautious, too protective of the women I see as my tribe? Does the language of this advertisement ring true for you? Would you apply?

I would love to hear your thoughts and would welcome the opportunity to work with any TV producers who want to create a considered multi dimensional programme about the diversity of experience for Female Breadwinners and how they make their lives and relationships work.

My book Rocking Your Role – the ‘how to’ guide to success for Female Breadwinners, will be out in June 2012

If you want to chat, gain support and read the latest from other female breadwinners, join my Rocking Your Role LinkedIn Group

Or sign up for my newsletter or tweet me @jennifergarrett

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